Respecting Trans Bodies is an engaging, sex-positive presentation designed to build confidence, communication, and care when navigating intimacy with transgender and gender-diverse partners. During this presentation, we will discuss navigating the ins-and-outs of sex with a Trans or gender expansive partner, including consent, questions to ask (or not), and how to hold space when the clothes come off.
Better in Bed
Respecting Trans Bodies
Saturday, May 2nd
8:30 am
Room: Mesa
101
Key Takeaways
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Attendees will learn how to ask respectful, affirming questions—and which questions are inappropriate or harmful—so conversations about bodies, boundaries, and desires feel consensual rather than invasive. The presentation covers correct and current terminology, why language matters in intimate settings, and how common misconceptions can show up in the bedroom.
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Participants will also explore what microaggressions look like in sexual and romantic contexts, how they impact trust and pleasure, and how to avoid unintentionally causing harm. Through practical examples and discussion, the session emphasizes listening, curiosity without entitlement, and centering a partner’s autonomy and comfort.
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Whether you’re new to dating trans people or want to deepen existing relationships, Better in Bed: Respecting Trans Bodies offers tools to create more affirming, pleasurable, and respectful intimate experiences—for everyone involved.
Jace Ryden (he/him) has made Arizona his home for more than twenty years. He prides himself as being an outspoken advocate for transgender, LGBTQ+, and civil rights, and has worked with numerous organizations throughout the state to raise both awareness and funds. As an “out” transgender man, Jace has made it a point to use his powers (and privilege) for good, and speaks publicly about his transition and his experiences as a member of the trans community. Jace has presented trans ally workshops at numerous conferences and trainings since 2019, including the TransParent Conference in Denver, Let’s Get Better Together, Southwest Love Fest, and Maricopa Community Colleges.