This presentation frames non-monogamy through the lens of Dungeons & Dragons, using the adventuring party as a metaphor for how polycules function as dynamic, interdependent relationship networks built on diverse strengths, shared goals, and intentional cooperation. We also explore character creation as a form of identity exploration, showing how role-playing provides a low-risk space for individuals to imagine and experiment with different relationship styles and kink dynamics. Taken together, these themes position non-monogamy as a collaborative adventure—one that, like any good campaign, is shaped through communication, creativity, shared storytelling, and the willingness to embark on a journey of discovery with one’s chosen party.
The Polycule Adventuring Party
A D&D Framework for Non-Monogamy & Kink
Saturday, May 2nd
1:30 pm
Room: Tempe
201
Key Takeaways
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Non-monogamous relationships can be understood as collaborative teams that are interdependent, flexible, and strengthened by the diverse skills, roles, and emotional capacities each partner contributes.
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Character creation in Dungeons & Dragons offers a safe, imaginative space to explore relational styles, identities, boundaries, and emotional patterns, helping individuals better understand themselves and what they bring to their relationships.
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With communication, creativity, and shared storytelling, polyamory becomes an ongoing adventure shaped by curiosity, cooperation, and mutual discovery.
Kaylee Talia (she/her) is a sociology professor with a doctorate in education and nearly three decades of experience exploring the intersections of identity, community, and culture. Involved in the polyamory community since the mid-1990s, she brings both personal insight and academic grounding to conversations about non-monogamy, relational ethics, and social structures. Kaylee is also a long time Dungeons & Dragons player and dedicated game weaver, using collaborative storytelling to examine relationships, power, and the imaginative possibilities of shared worlds.