Meet the many faces that help power the Love Fest community

Southwest Love Fest was founded by Kate Kincaid and Sara Bachman-Williams in 2018.

Love Fest Events started in 2024 is dedicated to continuing the mission of Southwest Love Fest which shares our focus. We aim to protect and grow existing spaces for people to explore and celebrate love, identity, and relationships.

Today, we operate as a community-focused event host driven by education, connection, and empowerment. Our growth is driven by the dedication of key teams, each committed to creating a welcoming environment for everyone.

Kate Kincaid (she/her) and Sara Bachman-Williams (she/her/ella) are pictured speaking at Southwest Love Fest 2019.

We are a Volunteer Led organization advocating for diversity in relationships.

Our Mission

The mission of Love Fest Events is to foster inclusive communities for individuals exploring diverse relationship structures. We create safe spaces for education, discussion, and celebration, empowering all people to learn and grow together.

    Our Vision

    Love Fest Events envisions a world where diverse relationships are accepted and celebrated, and local communities are empowered to learn and grow together.

    Carolyn

    Carolyn’s (she/her) time in the ENM community over the last ten years has been spent creating events and building community spaces through a variety of groups. She is currently a leader in one of the largest online polyam communities – Arizona Polyam and Proud – where she fosters community engagement and creates opportunities for in-person connections. She is also a graduate of ASU with a degree in psychology, specializing in research and interpersonal communication.

    As a co-founder of Love Fest Events, Carolyn is committed to bringing the benefits of a loving community to a larger audience.

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    Chelle

    Chelle (she/her) is a cisgender bisexual polyamorous woman who is passionate about personal growth and development, both in and out of the non-monogamy community. Chelle has been a member of the polyamorous community since 2017 and strives to foster an environment where non-monogamous folx can come together to learn, grow, and celebrate their unique paths in the world of non-monogamy. Chelle is also the host of the podcast Polyamirite (www.polyamirite.com). Polyamirite is founded on the principles of acknowledging that non-monogamous experiences do not live in a vortex. The goal of Polyamirite (you guessed it: a play on “Poly! Am I right?”) is to share stories that are relatable, humorous, empathetic, authentic, and vulnerable to help one another connect on all the peaks and valleys along the way of our polyamorous journeys. Professionally, Chelle is a licensed therapist who specializes in addiction recovery and trauma, including program development and leadership.

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    Jacob

    Jacob (he/him) brings a strong background in executive leadership and operations experience, complemented by his involvement with numerous nonprofit boards. He has made significant contributions as an event coordinator for various special interest groups in Phoenix. In the non-monogamy community, Jacob has played a key role in creating and hosting several large-scale events. Currently, Jacob is focused on realizing Southwest Love Fest, aiming to strengthen community relationships and engage volunteers to ensure a successful SWLF 2025. His vision includes making the conference a leading platform for learning, sharing, and connecting with like-minded individuals.

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    Chad

    Chad (he/him) has personally benefited from the knowledge, support, and resources that Southwest Love Fest is known for. He is deeply committed to creating a welcoming and empowering space for our community. With a background in leadership and team building he is excited to leverage those skills to organize and plan future events that are both meaningful and inclusive. He has attended every Southwest Love Fest to date and is excited to contribute his experience and passion to future Love Fests.

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    Callie

    Callie (she/her) is an engaged member of the ENM community in Tucson. She is dedicated to inclusivity and personal connection. Her past work with Southwest Lovefest was driven by a dedication to empowering others and creating safe inclusive spaces. Callie looks forward to helping the community continue to thrive and grow through collaboration and shared experiences.

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    Ryan

    Ryan (she/her) is a queer, cis-gender woman and a heart-centered guide with over 20 years of experience as a coach and mentor. A graduate of the Southwest Institute of Healing Arts, Ryan is a certified clinical hypnotherapist and intuitive master coach. She passionately advocates for consensual non-monogamy, mental health awareness, and sex positivity. As Community Manager, Ryan represents the interests of the community and stakeholders, participating in board meetings, assisting with tasks and committees, and fostering a welcoming and inclusive environment for all. With a deep understanding of trauma and the healing process, Ryan is dedicated to helping others find their identity, voice, and heart-center on their journey to a more joyous and free life.

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    Kate

    Kate Kincaid is a licensed professional counselor in Tucson, AZ. She runs a group private practice that specializes in working with LGBTQIA2S+ clients, people in ethically non-monogamous relationships and people seeking psychedelic integration therapy. She is trained by MAPS in MDMA-Assisted Psychotherapy and utilizes Ketamine Assisted Therapy in her practice as well as KAP provider trainings. She is passionate about perinatal mental health and is an advocate for innovative psychiatric treatments for PMDD and postpartum depression. Her interest in doing relationship therapy started when she studied at the Kinsey Institute- a renowned school for the study of sexuality and gender but flourished when she began actively organizing in her local queer and nonmonogamous communities. She is the co-creator of Southwest Love Fest, a conference on ethical non-monogamy, relationships, identity and community. She is also the author of “Polyamory Journal: A Relationship Book”.

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    Kimberlee

    Kimberlee (she/her/they) is an entrepreneur, yoga teacher, award-winning author, and passionate advocate for diversity, inclusion, community, and love. Her work in DEI began 30 years ago as a Freedom Writer and contributor to the New York Times bestseller "The Freedom Writers Diary." In addition to being a prolific writer, Kimberlee is a certified yoga teacher and trainer with nearly a decade of experience. She advocates for equity and inclusion in the wellness industry and promotes the practice of self-love as a powerful act of resistance.

    Kimberlee has been actively involved in the ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) community for over a decade and is a leader of Arizona Polyam and Proud — one of the largest online local polyam communities. She is committed to using her diverse experience to foster a safe and inclusive space where people can learn, grow, actualize their potential, and develop meaningful relationships

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    Liam

    Liam (he/him) is a queer advocate for LGBTQ+ issues and brings a passion for creating safe and engaging spaces for community to gather, learn, and connect. He brings technical expertise in finance as well as years of experience in large scale event planning in the non-profit space. Understanding that the journey through non-monogamy can sometimes be difficult, confusing, and alienating from friends & family, Liam hopes to cultivate a robust and interconnected non-monogamous and allied community where folx can find support, resources, and like-minded individuals who are on similar journeys of self-discovery. Liam graduated from Virginia Tech with a bachelor's degree in Financial Planning and focuses his professional practice on aligning client’s personal values with their financial decisions. In his personal time, Liam enjoys yoga, meditation, and mindfulness practices rooted in compassion and non-attachment.

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